Ever Feel Unsexy? I Hate This!

I am a young and bigger lady that loves having sex, and most of the time I feel sexy and passionate; however, there are also some times I just don’t feel that sexy while having sex!

I am in a very loving relationship and I fancy (yes, fancy) my partner. Our sex life is experimental and interesting, and we like to try new things. However, there are some things about having sex that aren’t always sexy! As a bigger lady, I find that the lumps and bumps can be a barrier for finding new positions that aren’t doggy or other positions from behind. Don’t get me wrong, I love him on top of me but again you don’t seem to get the full force of his dick. Sometimes sliding down the bed and lifting my legs high works a treat, although I’m then being suffocated by my own boobs and chin which isn’t the best look either.

Trying different positions can either make you feel sexy and passionate or make you feel like a lump, and telling your partner that you don’t particularly like this position can help in the future and can lead you to the topic of what does make you feel sexy. Me and my partner often talk about trying new positions and trust me some of them are a disaster; either I’m flattening him (he quite likes it I think) or getting stuck, yes I mean stuck. There was a time we wanted to try on the floor and I straddled around his hips and sat on his lap, it was great.. oh it was great (for about 5 minutes) then it came to moving and I realised I was unable to get up, how do you get up!? Then I thought FUCK! this is going to be totally unsexy! It ends with my backing up onto the floor totally giving myself carpet burn to then turn over and get up like an old lady! TOTALLY EMBARRASSING!!

Please tell me this isn’t just me!

I’d love to her your embarrassing stories to make me feel less of a total loser!

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