10 News Things to Try in Bed Tonight!

Couples may often find it hard to keep things fresh and exciting in the bedroom, here are a few ideas to try. Couples may get complacent in a relationship and get distracted in their lives, this does not mean your lover fancies you any less. The ideas below will put that little spark back in your relationship and love life!

Try a Little Bondage

BDSM could encompass anything from lightly holding your partner down, all the way up to handcuffs and ball gags. Couples enjoy the thrill of power or the rush of helplessness, it also helps to build trust in the relationship.

Share Fantasies

Consider making your relationship a safe space to talk about the darkest desires of each others’ hearts.

Your partner might be embarrassed to express there fantasies as they feel they might be judged. Some women expressed how forced sex was a fantasy of there’s, if you have trust in your partner why not try it! ( Only with a safe person) never with a stranger for obvious reasons. Expressing those fantasies will strengthen your confidence in the bedroom and will ultimately increase enjoyment!

Talk Dirty

Many people feel stifled about talking dirty in bed, but it can really spice things up if you run out of things to do in the bedroom. Don’t be afraid to tell your partner what you want to do to him/her or what you want him/her to do to you.

Anal Play

Anal is considered taboo, a final frontier, the province of gay men. An NIH study discovered that 43% of men and 37% of women report having had anal sex at least once in their lives. Some people may find it uncomfortable but it is important to remember to use lubricant and never go straight in, using toys to ease the area will help you relax, and overall enjoy the experience better.

Watch Each Other Masturbate

Studies have shown that people find masturbation more physically gratifying than sex with a partner, even if partner sex was more emotionally gratifying. Watching each other masturbate can give your partner ideas of how to touch you and also give you new ideas to explore.

Exchange Messages

Life can get so busy and talking about your day takes up most of your daily conversation. Giving a little text to your partner can show your partner that you are thinking about them, whether this being sexual or loving. These messages could be something like, ‘I can’t wait to hold you in bed tonight’ or ‘I want you to fuck me tonight’. Messages that are suggestive will often get your partner thinking and excited about spending time with you.

Add Toys to the Bedroom

A trip to the local adult store could reveal a world of possibilities to enhance your sexual encounters with possibilities for play. The employees are always eager to help you with questions so use that to your advantage if you are unsure. Using toys alongside sex can make the encounter last longer but also more fun.

Record Yourself

Sometimes the knowledge that you are performing for the camera spices up the encounter. It is always fun to watch yourself back! Please be mindful of security and not to share your clip, so they cannot be found on the web.

Invite Others to Join

Many couples do not have the stomach for the idea of their romantic partner touching someone else. This is very common, and nothing to be ashamed of. You could do this by joining a swingers website and sharing your ideas, from this you can join sex parties. Another way you can let others join is to invite someone to play with your partner and for you to watch, this is very popular especially with men wanting another man to fuck his partner, while he is pleasuring himself.

Sex in Public Places

Sex in public is the ultimate rush for many couples—the thrill of spontaneity, the risk of getting caught.

Why not try some of these suggestions to spice up your sex life. Let me know in the comments below your thoughts on these, and if there are any others you have found useful in your own personal opinions.